The wager
Tired of…“IDGAF”, “That’s BS”, “This sucks”.
Want to…Stop the BS. Catch a break. Be happy.
But… “No way in hell!”, “That’s impossible!”, “I can’t!”
WANNA BET?
WANNA MAKE A BET?
Despite everything you’ve been through, I bet you’re not ready to throw in the towel.
You want to do better, be better, and take your best shot at happiness — you just don’t know what to do next.
As a man, you think you must be tough, hide your emotions, and stuff it all down. Many of the men I work with feel stuck in a cycle of pushing people away and then feeling guilt and shame about it. They're so committed to putting up a wall at the cost of losing a lot of important people and messing things up.
Here’s what's true:
You actually do care — you only act like you don’t. It makes it easier to scare people off. This way, no one gets close enough to see the cracks and no one gets hurt.
You’re actually a great guy and it’s safe to drop the armour and let people in.
It can be different.
I'm willing to make a bet.
i bet that you…
…can experience a sense of trust, loyalty, and deep connection with others, even if you’ve shied away from it your whole life.
…can learn to safely feel and express your emotions without blowing things up and, wait for it — feeling stronger for it.
…are capable of changing your patterns, dealing with any shame, guilt, or anger, and learning to trust yourself and others.
In fact, I believe this so strongly that I want to make a bet with you.
WANNA BET?
Introducing
the wager
A 4-month, online, 1:1 introductory program to Men’s Transformation, designed to equip you with the tools to get your mind, body, and heart to finally workfor you and not against you.
here’s the deal
You say “Hell yes!” to this 1:1 program with me AND give it everything you’ve got.
I say “Hell yes!” to guide you. And a YES to giving you everything I’ve got AND to doing so on a wager that if you get fuck all out of it, you get 3 chances during the program to walk away and keep your money.
BUT… if in our time together you witness changes, experience insights, or learn something new, you’ll honour our wager!
Here’s how The Wager works:
We’ll have a total of 10 x 1:1 sessions over 4 months together, split into 3 stages:
Starting Point: Sessions 1 to 3
Journey: Sessions 4 to 8
Destination: Sessions 9 to 10
At sessions 3, 6, and 9, we’ll check in and agree on whether we want to continue.
If you got value out of the sessions, you pay 1/3 of the total investment until that point and are free to decide whether to commit to the journey until the next check-in or not.
If you got nothing out of our time together and decide to walk away, we part ways right there and then, your money stays in your pocket and our wager is complete.
Once we shake on it, the deal's done, and we go all-in.
So, wanna make a bet?
I’m in!
Hey there, I’m Sara.
I guide men at a turning point to rebuild from the inside out and take back control of their lives with the tools to safely break old patterns, process emotions, and find direction. Moving from stuck, struggling, and sabotaging the good things in their life, to feeling solid, strong, and driven.
Men who are:
Tired of trying and failing — yet willing to cut through their BS.
Wanting to connect with their authentic, intense, and powerful nature.
Ready to change, do the deep work and don’t know how.
I chose to work with men as I deeply believe the journey towards real, sustainable, meaningful healing is one that we embark on together! No one is coming out stronger or better by leaving another one behind. We need each other.
If you want to become the kind of man who gives a damn, has what it takes to show up for who and what matters most, and is free to be who you want to be — LET'S GO.
I ride along with you on your journey to feel alive, real, and free.
TAKE THIS BET AND YOU WILL GET THE TOOLS TO:
Identify and shift the limiting beliefs and habits that keep you stuck
Use your body to understand how you feel and how to change that,
Recognise your emotions and deal with them while keeping control
Do more of what fills up your energy tank and less of what drains it
Figure out what you need to build the life you want
Stay in charge and take care of yourself when the shit hits the fan
This is what you get as part of The Wager:
10 calls
10 total x 1:1 sessions
(60 min each).
Journal
A journal with all session notes, resources, and tasks.
4 months
4 months of personalised support between sessions, via a messaging app.
tools
Self-reflection tools to help you understand why you do what you do.
3 sessions
3 x guided rest sessions (recorded) to help you unwind and recharge.
practices
Daily practices to continue building on what you learn from our sessions.
Whatever you throw my way, i got you.
My promise to you is:
to show up authentically,
to serve you genuinely,
to nudge you safely,
to tell it to you straight, honestly.
Whatever you throw my way, I got you.
Note: I am not everyone’s cup of coffee, and neither is my method. I’m intense, straightforward, and can clearly see through any BS.
Someone once said, “As your coach, I’m not the least bit interested in your comfort,” and I agree. My role here is not to keep you cosy and comfortable, as no transformation happens there. My role is to ensure it’s safe for you to show up with what you got, as you are, do your work, and safely ride alongside you each step of the way, even when it gets uncomfortable, equipping you with the tools to navigate the discomfort safely and healthily.
Trust me as your ride-or-die, and I’ll dive deep with you on your journey of transformation.
YOUR INVESTMENT
EUR 3600
PLUS TAXES AND FEES,
SPLIT INTO THREE EQUAL PAYMENTS.
The Wager includes three check-in points, where we decide whether we continue or stop.
If you got value out of our sessions to that point, you pay EUR 1200 (plus taxes and fees) at each check-in.
This means you have roughly 30 days to take action and pay when the time comes.
Once you say you're in, you're in.
That means there are no refunds. It's part of shaking on it and showing commitment.
I’m ALL in.
Ready to bet
Great! Here’s what you need to do next:
STEP 1
Book a free 30-minute Spark Chat to ask questions and see if working together is a great fit. If we spark, we’ll virtually shake hands at the end of our call and that’s it: you’re in!
STEP 2
Keep an eye out for a couple of emails from me with forms to fill out and sign to make this official.
STEP 3
Book your calls using the link you’ll get via email, with the information to access your coaching journal and portal.
STEP 4
Expect to receive an invoice and a payment link for ⅓ of the total wager at each of the three check-in points, if you received any value from our sessions until then.
GOT QUESTIONS?
I love a good question and you have some awesome ones I’d love to answer.
Whatever it is — I got you!
If you prefer writing to me, send me an email–you’ve got my attention. I read and personally reply to each email.
If you prefer talking to me, book a free 30-minute Spark Chat to meet me and ask all the questions you have.
If you’re wondering what coaching is or what kind of motorcycle I ride, read the questions I normally get asked.
If you have questions about The Wager, keep reading.
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The first check-in happens after two sessions and it’s OK to stop.
If you received no value at all out of these two sessions, then we part ways right there and then and you keep your money.
If, on the other hand, you learned something new, had an insight, or felt something change, you’ll honour our wager agreement and pay what’s due until then, before going your way.
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I got you! We’ll chat about this in our closing session, figure out what that support might look like for you, and custom-make something that fits. In the meantime, you can check out what other programs I offer right here.
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Yes! I designed this specifically for men new to coaching and to me. The Wager is built as an introduction to coaching and includes a clear roadmap to move through the 10 sessions, ensuring we cover all bases. I’ll guide you and support you along the way!
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Let me ask you this: are you a rough-edged, weathered, stand-up man who is:
Ready to take control of your life, moving from hiding, self-sabotage, and silent suffering to feeling solid, strong, and driven.
Tired of trying and failing — yet willing to cut through your BS.
Wanting to connect with your authentic, intense, and powerful nature.
Ready to change, do the deep work, and don’t know how.
Taking back control and finding freedom.
Wanting to become the kind of man who gives a damn, has what it takes to show up for who and what matters most, and is free to be who you want to be.
Then, you’re READY and I’ll ride along with you on your journey to feel alive, real, and free.
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The Wager is built as an introduction to coaching and includes a clear roadmap to move through the 10 sessions, ensuring we cover all bases. This means that I’ll guide you through this journey, step by step, and that we get to navigate and explore together topics like your habits, patterns, emotions, mindset, values, etc. and share specific tools along the way. Compared to my other coaching programs, where you decide the topic you bring to each session, The Wager offers the structure and rhythms that are perfect as an introduction to coaching.
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This is really personal as it depends on how you prefer to process and integrate things. Some like to do that while at the gym or while outdoors hiking or riding… others prefer to carve out dedicated time to reflect on what emerged in a session and prepare for the next. I’d say a couple of hours per week, all at once or divided into smaller chunks. Any approach that works for you is the right one and no two are the same!
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PERFECT! This is exactly where we kick things off in The Wager, spending time figuring out what you want.
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When working with me, you’re invited and welcome to show up as you are and to share anything you feel like sharing. I commit to coaching you in a space free of any judgment and that feels safe, providing total privacy, protecting your identity, and ensuring confidentiality, where you can freely express yourself and your emotions. Everything shared throughout our coaching relationship is strictly confidential and that no one will ever know I am your coach. What happens in our sessions, stays in our sessions! You, on the other hand, are free to share anything you choose.
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Talk to me about it and we’ll see what’s possible.
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We typically start with getting present and connecting to the body, checking in to see what’s present, what emerged since our last session, and how you’re doing. Each session in The Wager has a different theme and it could go from getting clear on what you want to identifying the patterns that keep you stuck and the thoughts that run the show, to dealing with whatever emotions might emerge along the way. We also work on identifying actions you can take and integrating any insights you might have.
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I am not everyone’s cup of coffee, and neither is my coaching. I’m intense, straightforward, and can clearly see through any BS.
I’ve been coaching since 2015 and hold multiple certifications in various modalities, translating into a trauma-sensitive approach that blends coaching, embodiment, nervous system, neuroscience, yoga nidra, and Non-Linear Movement with a focus on working with men. If you’re curious, you can check out my qualifications here.
You can read more about me and my coaching here.
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Depending on the country you live in and whether you’re a person or a business, they may range between 4% and 27%.
If you feel all the above left you hanging and still have something else on your mind that you’d like to ask me about… OK THEN, SHOOT! You’ve got my attention.
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